Why Is It hard To Find Harmony Within Ourself And With Others, In Diaspora ?
A Culture of Distrust
At the heart of our challenges lies a fundamental flaw: an inability to see the good in others. We have become a people quick to criticize and slow to appreciate, especially when the ideas or actions do not originate from within our circles. We question everything, not out of genuine curiosity but from a place of skepticism and, at times, disdain. Democracy, protocol, due process, bureaucracy, and legitimacy have become our buzzwords, but they often serve as tools of division rather than unity.
We talk about democracy—government by the people, for the people, and of the people. Yet, when it comes to practicing it, we falter. We question the legitimacy of actions, scrutinizing them to the point of paralysis. Bureaucracy, which should be a mechanism for order and efficiency, often becomes a labyrinth of uninformed decisions and personal agendas.
Internal Struggles in Our Organizations
If democracy and bureaucracy are indeed the roadmaps to success, why are our organizations plagued with problems? Why do we remain in a perpetual state of discord and disunity? The answer lies in our resistance to ideas that do not come from us. We are uncomfortable with solutions and initiatives originating from others, viewing them as threats rather than opportunities.
This attitude breeds a toxic environment where dissent is not tolerated. Anyone who questions the status quo or proposes alternatives is branded an enemy. Instead of engaging in constructive dialogue, we resort to crushing those who dare to think differently. This approach stifles innovation and progress, leaving us trapped in a cycle of mediocrity and resentment.
A Call for Introspection
It is time for us to pause and reflect. What kind of legacy are we building for future generations? Are we fostering a culture of growth and collaboration, or are we perpetuating a cycle of mistrust and division?
We must remember that our strength lies in unity, not in tearing each other down. True democracy is not about silencing dissent but about embracing diverse perspectives. Bureaucracy should not be a tool for exclusion but a framework for inclusivity and fairness.
As individuals, we must strive to see the good in others, even when their ideas or actions do not align with our own. We must learn to appreciate the value of collaboration and recognize that no one has a monopoly on wisdom.
A Plea for Mercy
Finally, we must seek divine guidance in this journey of self-discovery and transformation. As we navigate the complexities of our existence, may God have mercy on our souls and grant us the wisdom to rise above our differences. May we learn to live together as brothers, embracing the beauty of our shared humanity.
In the words of Martin Luther King Jr., “We have learned to fly the air like birds and swim the sea like fish, but we have not learned the simple art of living together as brothers.” Let us take these words to heart and work towards a future where unity and peace prevail.
~Ogbuke, F.C. From 'Cubicle's Den'
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